Low Magnesium or Something Else?

we are talking about magnesium. Is it low magnesium? Is it simply stress? Is it something else? What's going on with my body? Why do I have low energy? Why do I have twitchy muscles? Let's dive into this.

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I'm so excited for this one because this is something that I have been unpacking within my own life.

I've been working with a functional medicine nurse, and soon I'll be working with a functional medicine doctor to dive even deeper in this with my own journey. And I don't know how many of you have witnessed this in your own life, but you know when you decide you're gonna buy a new car, new to you at least, whatever new means for you, and all of a sudden, or somebody you know, buys a new to them car.

And all of a sudden you see that same car on the road everywhere. That's what it's like for me because I've been diving into this in my own life. I'm now coaching more people around it. I am now noticing other people talking about it in the world, so I'm excited for this one. This will be a blend of personal experience research.

There's a lot here.

This is still going to go along with my whole stress series,

and the last time I had a solo episode, I talked about adrenal fatigue versus burnout. So think of this as another chapter in the book.

You've been feeling exhausted, anxious, not sleeping well, overwhelmed in your body. And you may have heard somebody say, take magnesium, or they tell you to take

something that will help you sleep.

And while those can absolutely help, not always the whole picture. And here's why magnesium comes up so often. It's often the mineral that we don't have enough of and it touches almost everything within your body. It affects nervous system regulation, so stress, muscle relaxation, sleep quality, stress response, blood sugar balance plays a role in your muscles.

If you ever had those twitchy muscles for me, I get them right around my eyes. Usually under here it's, and because I'm used to it under here, it's super annoying. When it's my upper eyelid. It just feels like I can't see straight. I feel like I can't talk straight because it's doing weird stuff up here.

Like I said, a lot of adults are not getting enough, so it makes me wonder, are children getting enough?

Modern life, feel like not quiet. Feel like it's kind of loud. Deplete loudly, depletes magnesium through chronic stress. Caffeine, poor sleep, processed foods, even intense exercise can do it. So magnesium matters a lot.

But what does it look like when it's low?

How do you know? I mean, we just said that most people are low, but how do you know if you're in that group of people?

You can feel like your system is constantly on edge. You might notice muscle tension or twitching headaches, or sleep or waking during the night. Anxiety or restlessness, heart palpitations, constipation, feeling like your body can't fully relax. And what's interesting is I had these and I started seeing specialists and then when I started working with functional medicine nurses, like, oh, I wasted all that money on time on specialists when it was this.

It's like your body is stuck on the subtle on position and it can't get off or rest even when you're trying to rest. And in those cases, magnesium can quietly take the edge off and we'll, we'll talk in a little bit about what foods help with that.

Here's where people get stuck. They treat it like a solution when sometimes it's just support. And that's that whole layered idea. And we'll talk about stress and all the different ways that it can deplete vitamins and minerals. So really, we started out talking about magnesium, but we're really talking about stress and how magnesium correlate, like where they intersect here.

You can take magnesium every night, and I've done this and still feel exhausted, overwhelmed, emotionally drained, foggy T still have the twitchy muscles, and it's that idea that you've gone so long without that, it'll take you a while to recover. And magnesium's just one layer of it, which makes so exhausting, which is why we talk about wellness as a whole.

Because you need to add and remove a lot of things to really feel like, yes, this is right and what is right, changes throughout your life. So it's ever evolving as you are ever evolving, because magnesium doesn't remove the chronic stress, the emotional load, the over pack schedules, the misalignment in your life, whatever else.

It's just weighing you down. It does help your body cope. It's the buffer. It doesn't change what your body is coping with. Not going to suddenly make your bank account explode that idea.

So is it magnesium or is it burnout? It's often both. Magnesium depletion and burnout tend to feed each other.

Stress burns through magnesium. Low magnesium makes you more sensitive to stress or sleep worsens both, and you need sleep to be able to process your stress and to be able to absorb vitamins and minerals. But what happens when you're so stressed out and you don't have enough vitamins and minerals that you can't get enough sleep to help those things?

So start where you can start with what makes sense and you're gonna try different things and go, this works, this doesn't work, or at least doesn't work for right now. This is where coaching comes in. So helpful because when you get overwhelmed, you have somebody who's there to listen there to support you there to offer advice when you need it.

In that safe space, a really soft landing. We all need that in life. You'll deserve it in life.

So it goes with the whole layers idea, and it goes with with coaching, asking the right questions to really get you to, yes, this works. No, this doesn't. You can also work with the nutritionist. You can work with functional medicine doctors. So many different options. Really, all of us are working with stress at the end of the day.

There's so many different aspects of it, but it's really kind of the foundation of what we're working on.

Here are other things that can feel like low magnesium that can come from nervous system dysregulation. This is what we talked about a little bit, but it's, this is us widening the lens, feeling consistent, feeling constantly on edge or shut down.

Like we're about to sleep. Disruption, even if you're in bed long enough. I've been there, been so frustrated like I was in bed long enough. Why didn't it work? Blood sugar instability, energy crashes, irritability, cravings, hormonal shifts, especially in perimenopause, and I've been having a lot of professionals talking about this recently because I'm going through it.

I just turned 40 and. I know. So because I'm going through it and I just turned 40, a lot of my friends are my same age. So we have a lot of discussions around this and a lot of the people that I coach are around my same age too. And it's very interesting from what I've been learning that the reason why it feels like everything is falling apart here and then with menopause is because of how long we have been ignoring signs and symptoms.

It can take a while to undo all of this. That has been our whole life leading up to this point that we are fixing stress wise, vitamins and minerals wise, relationship wise, our environment are the way we think and talk about ourselves and to ourselves. Mental and emotional overload.

That also goes with that caring too much for too long. So that's that same idea of what I was just talking about, chronic inflammation or gut issues, and here's why. It makes it tricky. These all overlap, so it can really hard to disentangle this and you can feel like, okay, I've gotten this fixed, so why isn't everything else working?

You really want it to be, I fixed this, so the house of cards, it falls down and now I'm good. It can be very overwhelming, but know that this is an important layer, so it's worth continuing listening to. It's worth having that check in with yourself of Do I need this? And it's that reminder of that song.

Your neck bone is connect to your shoulder bone, you know, start off in the wrong area, but you, you know that song. Everything is connected within your body. So it can be really frustrating when you go to the doctor, especially if they're a specialist, or you go to your primary care doctor and they send you here and you're like, no, it's all of this, and it's all connected.

So let's talk about what moves the needle with regards to stress and magnesium and thinking and layers here. So magnesium is absolutely a part of your nervous system supporting this. Real change usually comes from improving sleep rhythm, not just supplements.

Re regulating your nervous system daily. And I interviewed somebody for, she came out with an app and she now has changed the name, but I really love this app. It's called Ease Now, but. It can really help you become regulated because it's asking you to add in your mood for the day. It has EMDR in here, which can really help regulate yourself. It can be part of seeing a therapist with regulate your nervous system. It can be doing somatics. Think about things that help regulate you, especially when you're so stuck that you feel like you are just not getting traction.

Stabilizing meals and blood sugar. How many of us are so busy? So stressed out. So disconnected from ourselves that we are not realizing my blood sugar sinking. We aren't listening to our hunger cues that go along with that. So we're bottoming out and then we're overeating. So we're getting out of that green zone area.

Our blood sugar's spiking, so then what goes up must come down. So that idea. We're not listening to our bodies to eat the right things, the right amounts, and it can also, the change comes from reducing invisible load, creating space for actual recovery. That idea of I'm working really hard and pushing through on this thing, so I know that I need to do something lighter.

If it's during your workday and you can't clock out yet, or. House project wise, we did this major house project or major cleaning of this area, and now we just need to decompress.

We just came back from vacation and we feel like we need a vacation after our catching back up at work and around the house and our to-do list and our life. Also a really good indication that you might have too much going on. Feel like you need a vacation. After the vacation. It goes creating space for recovery.

That's really the biggest one. Out of all this, if you're creating space for recovery and you're tuning in with yourself, it'll be easier to get to your sleep rhythm. It'll be easier to regulate your nervous system. It'll be easier to know when you're hungry and to not eat too much, wait too long, and it'll be easier to realize your invisible load and re delegate it or decide maybe this doesn't matter.

You might be asking yourself what's wrong with. Try this instead. What is my body trying to keep up with right now? Your symptoms aren't random. They're signals, and

it's not failing you. Your body's communicating with you, right? They might be signals that say, I need more nourishment. I need more recovery time. I need less pressure. I need support to regulate again. So instead of jumping straight ahead to what supplements do I need to take, maybe ask how can I support my body at the root level?

What's really going on underneath this?

Let's talk about foods. So let's talk about some foods that are high in magnesium. And this, I was always told, go eat a banana. Bananas are actually low in magnesium, so pumpkin seeds. Powerhouse almonds and cashews. Spinach and Swiss chard, black beans and lentils.

Dark chocolate, darker the better. Avocados. Quinoa. Here's the trick with quinoa. Rinse that like none other, rinse it really well before you go to cook it. I made the mistake of not rinsing a well and cooking it and could not figure out why everyone else taste as good, and mine was gross. It. A decade or two ago, but blah, you don't need perfection here, but definitely try to add some every day.

Now let's talk about foods that support a stressed out body. This is stable energy, so have some type of protein with each meal. This is not need to be meat. So talking about proteins I can go to. Poster that I have up here. So beans and lentils, tofu. Whole grains, seed, nuts, hummus. Have a variety. That whole idea of eating the rainbow, put that in there. Healthy fats and healthy fats would be, linseed oil hep seed, rope, seed, olive oil, green leafy vegetables are fat, avocados, nuts

and fiber. Rich carbs. So. Quinoa is a really good source of fiber too. And protein two for one it actually offers a lot of different things. It's a powerhouse one, so with fiber, I have that up here too. So for fiber, think whole grains, beans, lentils, fruit and vegetables, nuts and seeds.

Make sure you're drinking water, plenty of water,

and so stable energy that reduces those energy crashes and the mood swings. Thinking glucose with this anti-inflammatory support. So berries, leafy greens, olive oil, fatty fish like salmon. Yum. And then think about nervous system support, warm grounding meals, and not doing something else while you're eating.

You're just focusing on eating. You're taking the time to focus on the texture, the way it looks, the texture in your mouth, focus on the taste of it, really slowing down and enjoying that meal. Soups and stews. Love that During fall season, cooked foods, especially if your digestion feels off, then there's gut support.

Because stress hits digestion hard. I know that one from my own life. Fermented foods like kimchi, sauerkraut, miso, legumes, and it's not about a perfect diet. It's not about perfect sleep. None of this is about perfection, but it is about tuning in with yourself and giving yourself space to really, and this goes along with coaching or therapy, where you're given the space to really think through things, really process.

So you're giving yourself that space of how am I feeling? What else? What's coming up? What do I need right now? Just, and I'm doing this with my eyes closed because that gives me that chance to really tune in. Okay. Extra exhale. Okay, I'm here in this moment, I'm grounding myself,

Another part that I'm excited to share with you, and this is about Epsom salt baths and foot soaks, because this is a really great way to get more magnesium in my magnesium. Looking back, it's so depleted that I've never had enough my whole life, which is why I had terrible cramps and why my mom has terrible cramps in her chest.

My grandmother had the same thing. So it's looking back of, oh, this is a generational thing. So these women never had enough magnesium. So of course I never had enough, right? Because my mom as a fetus inside my grandmother, she needed these new vitamins and nutrients, and she did not have enough. Plus growing up, if my grandmother wasn't eating enough, she was probably not feeding her children enough.

So Epsom salt, bath, and foot soaks. This is one of those simple tools that can feel surprisingly powerful.

So Epsom salt is magnesium sulfate, and while absorption through skin is still depleted, many people feel a relaxation benefit. So it's that idea of you can unplug. I love things that are multi-layered and that I'm getting to unplug and I'm absorbing some magnesium. That's a win. So for full bath, it's two one to two cups of Epsom salt and you soak for 15 to 20 minutes and warm, not overly hot.

For a foot soak, it's half a cup epso salt in a basin of warm water, and it's 15 to 20 minutes, two to three times per week for support and more often during high stress periods if it feels good for your body. And this also helps with pooping because magnesium muscles, right?

So with the constipation, but it's also really good for your bum. So if you have hemorrhoids, it softens them. Double winner. And while you're in there, you can shave your legs if you shave legs. If you shave, you can. I have, it kind of looks like a cheese grater, so I'll do the bottom of my feet. That's when I'll switch out my toenail polish, so it's really good Self-care night, two to three times per week.

Let's talk about what stress depletes in the body. Chronic stress is expensive for your body, and it is financially too, right? How many times are you buying things? Because some aspect of what you're missing in life has been marketed to you, and if you really go back to it, stress's, one of the things being marketed to you and sex, right?

That sexy person, or they're doing something that looks fun anyway.

It's expensive. You're going to the doctor more. You're buying more things to fix your stress. You're using up time, being sick instead of going on vacation, you're missing out on advancement where you work because you're spending too much time being sick or. Being sickly where you're still there but you're not functioning optimally or it's expensive on your relationships.

So it can be expensive in a lot of different ways and stress burns through key nutrients faster than you can replace if you're not intentional. Common nutrients that are depleted, and these are ones that were depleted for me when I did, my hair follicle analysis and blood work, magnesium. That affects relaxation, sleep, muscle function,

B vitamins, energy production, brain function, vitamin C, immune support and adrenal function, zinc immune system and healing. And for me, I actually had too much zinc in my body, so inflammation, omega threes, inflammation and brain health, and this is why you can feel both tired and wired, depleted and overstimulated.

Here's what chronic stress can lead to. This isn't about scaring you. It's about awareness. When stress goes unaddressed long-term, it can contribute to cardiovascular disease, digestive disorders.

Anxiety and depression, sleep disorders, hormonal imbalances, autoimmune conditions, metabolic issues like insulin resistance. Chronic stress is not just emotional, it becomes physical over time. So definitely can be expensive.

Now, let's talk about some ways to reduce stress and not just manage it.

And this is where people often get stuck, and I'm pointing at myself too. You can't think your way out of stress. Right? Your body needs physical signals of safety.

Needs physical signals of safety. What would that look like? Could look like breath work, slow deep breathing, longer, exhales especially. Movement, walking, stretching, yoga, not intense. Regulating heart and relaxation, sauna baths, even just sitting still without stimulation.

And that can be really hard. You might need to work up to the without stimulation part. Totally fine. Sensory, grounding, I love this one. Being outside. Sunlight, hands in water, touching something natural. For me, it can even just be looking around you, maybe finding all the things that are green, whatever.

Or something of a texture, emotional release. Talking, coaching can be with that journaling, crying, not my favorite. 'cause then I get all headachey and I'm stuffy. So maybe cry before you go to sleep, like hours before you go to sleep. Then you won't be all stuffy and trying to breathe. Reducing input. Yes, this is mine.

Sometimes the most powerful thing is less noise, less scrolling, less pressure. So when you ask, is it magnesium or something else? Here's the grounded answer. Magnesium might be part of the support, but your body is asking for more than one thing.

Nourishment, rest, rhythm, safety, and space to recover.

So I have coaching questions and then I have coaching questions. So let me get to my first series of coaching questions. When do you feel the most tense in your body?

Anything come to mind? What's happening around you at that time?

Am I relying on quick fixes or am I also addressing the root stress in my life?

Maybe you need to take a second, and what quick fixes am I relying on?

Do they work enough? Should they be layered? But what's at the root of this?

You are struggling with that. Reach out to me. Wellness in every season.com. You can schedule with me right there on the first page on the landing page. What actually helps me feel calm and how often do I give myself access to that?

This is a big deal because we live in a time where CBD is all over the place. Is that a band? What do you think

if CBD came to mind for you when I asked? What actually helps you feel calm and how often do you give yourself access to that? That's a problem. Okay. That's not addressing the root cause.

Where might my body need support?

Where might my life need adjustment?

Here's a big one. If I stop trying to fix using quotes, fix myself for a moment, what would I notice instead?

Where is my body asking for support that I've been overriding? For me, that was definitely the magnesium one, which is why I wanted to have a whole episode on it.

Here's one, am I trying to solve a whole body issue with a single solution? I totally was with the magnesium, even with writing this episode and realizing, no, no, no, there's more to it.

What would support look like for me? Not ideally, but realistically,

what is one small way I can nourish my body this week?

If I truly believe my body was on my side, and I know that could be, feel uncomfortable to even think that way, but if I truly believe my body was on my side, how would I treat it differently?

Here's the thing, your body's not working against you. It's adapting, it's compensating, it's doing everything it can to keep up, and when it starts asking for more support, that's not a failure. That's important to remember. That's something that I'm going to need to reflect on. Past instances where I thought it was failing me.

It's an invitation, right? So for me, I just went to the doctor to get antibiotics, and I'm very frustrated because two times ago when I had a virus, I had to get antibiotics then, and it's like my body's failing me. Hold on. What's actually going on? So it goes back to that question, huh? My body's not failing me.

It's been in stress for such a long time.

So here's the closing thoughts. Magnesium can be incredibly supportive, but it's not a magic switch. Be great if it was. If your body feels depleted, overwhelmed, or stretched thin, it's not because you're missing one thing because your system has been carrying more than it can substantially fold.

Healing is about chasing the next solution. So great if it was, and that's also why the wellness industry is probably trillions of dollars, not just billions. Why it makes so much money. It's about learning how to support your body in a way that actually lasts and that works for you, for your needs, for your ideal lifestyle.

So

going back to it's an invitation,

are there people who are also struggling through this, that need this episode? People that you know, who comes to mind, who can you share this episode with so that they can also find a relief? Maybe so that they can become your support partner. Please share this episode and please know you are absolutely worth having amazing health, wellness, vitality, whatever words you need to put in here, energy, balance, love, lightness.

You're worth it. The people around you are also worth it, so share it with them, but know that this is work. It's absolutely worth it, and it will be an amazing investment. It'll absolutely pay off. I believe in you and I know you can do it, and I know that

it's worth unwinding the stress. And it's worth showing other people how to do it. And we don't have to be perfect at it to also cheer on other people who are working to become the best versions of themselves in a very whole self way. Think about examples of your life of when you pushed through, you stayed up late, and then when you got sleep and you looked at whatever you were working on, you had to redo all of that versus the times where you went, I'm burning out, my candle was running low. I need to take a break, or I need to go to sleep.

And then you come back to it when you're refreshed. Have you noticed that you don't have to undo things? When you take the time for yourself and then you come back to whatever it is, it pays off to take these breaks. It pays off to look at your stress and how you can relieve it and what you need to put in nutritionally, what you need to put in environmentally, what you need to put in with support systems.

What you need to subtract. Maybe it's that boss. Maybe it's spending less time around a coworker spending less or no time around a family member or someone in your community, or maybe it's about giving yourself more white space in your calendar. Listen to yourself. When you really listen to yourself, you will find that you are your own guru and that you have the answers.

And if you are absolutely stuck, I would love to help you wellness in every season.com. You can find it there. I'll see you in the next episode.

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I hope that you found the answers that you needed, and you had some amazing aha moments. Please share this episode with others because it helps us align ourselves and then better align the world so that we can seek the healing that we really are looking for as part of the legal language.

I am a certified life coach with a Bachelor's in Applied Health. That is what I am leaning on for this. This is general advice. Take it as such. See you in the next episode.